You know, people like you, and there are a few of them replying here, really worry me. There seems to be this view that a man who is good, kind, accepting, and happy to let a woman take the lead in relationship building is less than the man who 'calls the shots'. This shows what you and the others know about women. Nothing. Worse, I think it shows at best a dislike of women. Are you an INCEL? If so, perhaps you should reexamine your attitude.