My husband has a saying 'Nice works'. He is the kindest man. He's not always thoughtful. He isn't perfect but if he's hurt someone he's mortified and wants to rectify it immediately. I fell in love with his sweet nature and I wouldn't trade him for the world. He isn't a pushover. He's his own man and he's my man. We laugh every day. Laughter, seeing the funny side of even the worst thing helps us through the hard times. He tells me that 'blokes are simple' and that all he needs is to know what I am thinking then he opens the space for me to communicate what I need. He makes me feel safe and that is golden.