I'd really like to live in a world where we can discuss our ethnicity, background, family history, race, what have you with interest and yes, joy. 'Where are you and your family from?' Should be an expression of interest not condemnation of any sort or kind. No borders, see? That seems to me to be the key. You are here and you belong here. So glad to meet you. Wouldn't that be sweet? AND you tell me what you'd like to known as, then I will have been given the gift of education and connection.